In recent years, film and television have begun to feature more LGBTQIA+ stories, though authentic representation is still far from the norm. One theme that has been explored time and time again is the coming-out experience, a rite of passage in which queer people publicly declare their identity to the world.

While coming out is universal in theory, each person’s experience is different, ranging from uplifting to painful to downright messy. These moments have been vividly captured across a variety of shows and films, from Heartstopper and Buffy the Vampire Slayer to Red, White & Royal Blue and But I’m a Cheerleader. With that in mind, we’ve curated some of our favourite coming-out scenes, moments that left many viewers (including us) deep in their feelings.

9-1-1: Evan 'Buck' Buckley

Season 7, Episode 4 ('Buck, Bothered and Bewildered')

In this episode, Buck (Oliver Stark) reflects on his passionate kiss with former firefighter and LAFD Air Operations pilot Tommy (Lou Ferrigno Jr.). Realizing he’s not straight, Buck begins to navigate his newfound identity with the people closest to him, including his best friend Eddie (Ryan Guzman).

When Eddie vents about his relationship troubles with Marisol, Buck admits that his meeting with Tommy was a date. Eddie immediately offers his support, assuring Buck that his sexuality doesn’t change their friendship. Fans of Buddie may have hoped for more, but it remains a genuinely wholesome coming-out moment that deserves recognition.

Bridgerton – Benedict Bridgerton

Season 7, Episode 4 ('The Passing Winter')

In 2024, Bridgerton introduced a canonically bisexual main character in Benedict (Luke Thompson), the second-oldest Bridgerton sibling. Throughout season three, the bohemian painter explored his sexuality, including a thruple arrangement with his lover at the time, Tilley Arnold (Hannah New), and her friend Paul (Lucas Aurelio).

Season four deepened this exploration, culminating in a heartwarming coming-out scene with his love interest, Sophie Baek (Yerin Ha). Unlike many shows that shy away from bisexual representation, Bridgerton fully embraced Benedict’s identity. The moment was made especially touching by Sophie’s warm and accepting response, highlighting a rare example of thoughtful and affirming representation.