Words by Honey Wyatt
Design by Chyna Sudbury

Forget everything you think you know about lesbians: I’m about to defy sapphic stereotypes. In the 10 or so years that I’ve been having sex with women, a strap-on has only made its way into my bed once. I know. I, too, am gagged. It’s not that I’m opposed to penetration. But two little things have always gotten in the way: the labels ‘top’ and ‘bottom’.